Misleading information abounds today in the area of love and commitment in relationships. Here are three mistakes to avoid when you are wanting to get a man to commit to the next level in your relationship, and you are wondering how to make him love you.
MISTAKE NUMBER ONE: ALWAYS BE SUPER APPRECIATIVE WHEN HE GIVES EXTRAVAGANTLY
When making this mistake, you assume that letting a guy know how much you enjoy being taken out to expensive restaurants will make him love you. You think if you rave about the expensive gift he gave or the high ticket outing or concert he bought you, you will make him feel good and will help him want to be committed to you.
The truth is you do need to be appreciative, but a man needs more from you than that if you want him to begin to see you as special. If you rave on about how much you like all the gifts he showers on you, the message you are sending him is that you like him for his money.
If this guy is special to you, then that is not the message you want to send him. You need to let him know that you are attracted to him for who he is, not what he can give you.
MISTAKE NUMBER TWO: ASK LOTS OF QUESTIONS ABOUT WHAT HE DOES TO SHOW HIM YOU ARE INTERESTED
This sends a similar message to your guy about you only wanting him for his money or position. If your questions about his work are aimed at you getting a better idea of what his position is in the company, or how close he is to get the next promotion – you will have lost him.
If, however, you ask questions that allow him to reveal to you more about why he enjoys his work, or what his latest project is, you will show him that you are into the real him, and he will begin to see you as special.
This is one of the real keys to finding your way to a man’s heart and making him committed to you forever.
MISTAKE NUMBER THREE: BELIEVING MEN SEE MARRIAGE AND COMMITMENT AS SOMETHING THAT WILL SLOW THEM DOWN
It is a mistake to believe that men see marriage and commitment as a chain around their neck that will weigh them down. This suggests that a woman has to catch a man – that he won’t commit willingly – that he has to be almost forced.
The truth is: When a man finds a woman who he is attracted to, feel love for, and believes will be a help and support to him in his journey through life – he will happily, and of his own accord, pursue this woman and commit himself to her for life.
Want to know the real way to your man’s heart? Watch my video to learn how to make him love you for life, without manipulation or being pushy. There is a way to get a man to commit to you willingly, even when he says he loves you and is attracted to you, but just is not ready for the next step.