Sex is a fantastic way to connect with a partner, but it’s not the only path to a healthy and fulfilling sex life. In fact, there’s absolutely no shame in not being sexually active with a partner right now – but that doesn’t mean you should forgo pleasure…
In other words, sometimes, a little solo exploration is the perfect way to prioritise your sexual well-being!
The good news? A satisfying sex life can be achieved without involving a single other person. Solo play (aka self-pleasure or masturbation), offers a range of mental and physical health benefits that shouldn’t be overlooked!
Benefits of Solo Play:
- Self-Discovery and Empowerment: Solo play empowers you to explore your body and discover what feels good on your own terms. This can lead to a much deeper understanding of your sexuality and build confidence in the bedroom, with or without a partner.
- Stress Relief and Relaxation: Just like partnered sex, solo sessions can be a fantastic stress reliever! Orgasms trigger the release of endorphins, which are drug-like chemicals that leave you feeling calm and relaxed.
- Improved Sleep: The relaxation benefits of solo play also translate into better sleep quality. A well-rested you is a happier, healthier you, after all…
- Pain Management: For some people, experiencing orgasms through solo play can help manage menstrual cramps or chronic pain.
- Boost in Mood: The hormonal changes associated with experiencing an orgasm can leave you feeling happy and content in yourself.
- Increased Confidence: Regular solo play can lead to a greater sense of self-acceptance and comfort in your own skin. This confidence can radiate outwards!
Making Solo Play a Positive Experience:
- Set the Mood: Create a comfortable and relaxing environment for your exploration. Light some candles if you like, put on some music, or grab a soft blanket. There’s no shame when there is nobody around. This is ‘you’ time.
- Lube is Your Friend: Using a high-quality lubricant can make solo play incredible – and indeed more comfortable.
- Experiment and Explore: Oh! And don’t be afraid to try different techniques with vibrators (vibro / vibromasseurs as they say in French), to uncover what works best for your body. There are plenty of reputable adult shopping websites out there that can discreetly deliver superior quality sex toys to your door!
- Focus on the Journey, Not the Destination: The key to a genuinely satisfying solo session is relaxation and self-exploration. Leave all judgement at the door. Don’t put any pressure on yourself to achieve orgasm every time. Just focus on the sensations and enjoy the journey.
Solo Play: A Healthy Part of Sexual Wellness
Solo exploration is a natural, healthy part of human sexuality – and don’t let anybody tell you otherwise.
It allows you to take charge of your own pleasure, improve your overall well-being, and build a foundation for a fulfilling sex life, with or without another person involved.
So, embrace your solo journey…Explore, discover, and enjoy the many benefits of prioritising your own sexual health, on your own darn terms!