Many tidy relationships and arranged marriages are ruined due to a lack of full faith and a high tendency of suspicion. Too much of anger (Vrede) in the family can be mentioned as one reason for the break up of the family. Couples around the world have been seen resorting to a variety of couple therapists to restore peace. One study from the developed world found that 97% of couples resorted to therapists to rekindle their relationship, and 93% of the respondents suggested that their relationship became closer after the couple resorted to therapists.
The interrelationships in relationships are like:
What could be the external activities of an ideal relationship? Generally, these can be that they love each other very much, value each other’s opinions, share everything among themselves, support each other in all matters and put their partner above all else. Do you know when a relationship is broken? Relationships get ruined only when they don’t respect each other; quarrels break out, suspicions grow, supportive attitudes get lost. In the case of married couples, relationships get ruined due to various financial problems. Couples have to sacrifice the smallest of things to bring peace in relationships. Couples may seek the advice of a couple of therapists and seek the necessary advice. You have to set one thing on your mind that divorce can never be a proper solution.
Let’s look at some of the effective couple therapy that can bring peace to your relationship.
Affectionate focused therapy:
Emotions are the most common emotion type in a love affair, and various intelligent therapists use that emotion. They try to convince the couple in different ways that one of you has a lot of love for the other, but maybe the relationship has deteriorated due to a little misunderstanding, but you can fix it if you want. Couple therapy brings a better relationship between couples by adopting a variety of other methods.
Game of Truth:
A couple of therapists advise you to play interest games with your partner. You can play various quiz answer games with your partner so that your curiosity about yourself can be satisfied and one can have good ideas about the other. In the same way, you can know when someone likes and needs something. They can ask different questions like what do you like to eat? What is your favorite place to travel? Who is your celebrity crush? Would you like to get lost in the unknown with me? What is your favorite childhood memory? You can also ask various romantic questions that will make you more attractive to your partner.
At some point in the relationship, you might wake up at night talking. But you can make that precious time of talking more romantic by sharing different songs. Maybe one person will play romantic songs to the other in unison, or one will suggest to the other songs that match your personal life, and the songs have a lot of meaning that shakes the mind. If the relationship is built up in this way, it is less likely to break up, and that is why couple therapists ask couples to use this magic technique of music sharing.
Swap and share romantic books:
Books are considered a symbol of peace. It can be used as a working technique in a conductive relationship where the partner will suggest different types of books to each other and sort the books of choice among themselves so that one can measure the other’s preferences. A couple of therapists suggest that swapping books creates a positive perception of one person and leaves a mark on the mind as a smart person.